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Dates?
You know, I don't know what others think about me. Some people have good feelings about me, and some don't. But that particular group of people that I wish to mention to in this post is mainly people who have good feelings about me. Recently, I have been asked out on dates. Pretty often, but most of the time I am busy at work or church or school. Yeap, I've rejected a few now, sadly for them. Well, simply because for some of them I feel that I don't know them well enough. It's like.. hello? I don't really know you and you want me to go on a date with you? No. It's a good feeling, sure. I mean you know, people actually ASK YOU OUT. Of course you will feel honoured. But just some people, it feels a little.. annoying. I am not trying to be mean. But some people try too hard and some just SO HAPPEN to talk to you at the wrong time, ALWAYS. Hahaha, well, bad luck on those people. Still, I'll always try to make it a point to reply them after I am done with my stuff. I don't usually reject people when they ask me out, unless I feel that I don't know them well enough and they are not in the circle of people that I am comfortable with and I trust enough to go out on a date with, SORRY! :) When I mean annoying, some people just try too hard kind of thing. And this happens more often to guys whom aren't really my 'type'. And please, I am not blind, I know it when someone actually is fond of me. Going on dates, to me, is like for my close guy friends or those that I like. Which currently there isn't anyone in the second category. And today, during fellowship, I have learnt a new word. It is called 'ship', as in relationship. The girls used this word on me, they were saying that they are shipping me and this particular guy. (It also means that they are trying to get me and that guy together) But honestly, I still don't know how to use this word, whatever. I'm not going to use it. I've told myself not to get into another relationship too soon after my previous one ended. I mean, sure it is sweet and fun, but I am not up for it yet. I don't want a boyfriend now, so hold your horses guys! Now I think of it, it is kind of 麻烦 to actually be in a relationship. Lots of sacrifices, but it's all worth it :D And like what Dorothy told me "God always work in a funny way when it comes to love", I can agree to that! So it doesn't matter how many suitcases (me and Ecclesia's term for suitors) I have, God already has a plan for me! |