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Imperfection. I came to realized that as I grow up, the more I see imperfect things. I don't mean that I focus on imperfection, but more of I realized that there are SO MUCH imperfection in the world. And right now I'm just thankful for everything that is still perfect in my life. Since secondary 2, I came to know more and more friends that have imperfect family. Divorced parents, parents quarreling, cheating etc. You get what I mean. I just thank God that I still have both my parents with me. Certain things, as a child (in the family), are beyond our control. Some of our parents are immature, childish and downright selfish, we all know that. But what can we do about it? Nothing. Recently I just suddenly feel a lot for my friends who have imperfect family or have a strained relationship between his/her parents at home. I don't know how to put it to words. They tell me about what happened but yet I cannot do anything about it, I want to help but I don't know how. I guess all I can do is to be a part of them. But then again, people who have these imperfections in their life, they either come out stronger or they are totally crushed. I know of people from both side of the spectrum. This world is filled with so much imperfection that really it is very scary. Bad things happen to good people. Good intentions get mistaken. Nice guys get rejected. What's new? |