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Acceptance & Forgiveness.
 Today I met up with my P6 classmates, most of them are like from my sec 4 class, but that doesn't matter. It was a good time catching up. And among the group of people that went, there is this girl that I used to HATE a lot. Like really, I don't usually hate people, but I hated her. But I guess this time round, things sort of changed. It's kind of good, I guess (: Last week she called me and explain that our initial idea was a little too costly and they cannot afford. After that she whatsapp-ed me telling me her phone number because it was an unknown number when she called. We talked a little on whatsapp and I kind of like.. choose to forget in the past for all the reason I hated her. Honestly, it feels good. It's like you come to be in good terms with someone you used to hate. Forgiveness is a choice. Something I learnt during service. Forgiveness, I believe, comes with acceptance. Well, for this case, I couldn't accept the fact that this person is forever so critical and judgmental and loud. But I guess I just came to accept that this is the way she it, as a friend I just have to accept and love her. (: |