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Males VS Females
Monday, March 19, 2012 @ 10:20 AM ☂ 0 comment(s)

Just now when I woke up, I watch this video of 7 things that women in Singapore hate most about their guys, and I agree with them. Almost all. And there's this top few with problems such as
  • Selective Listening
  • Burping
  • Vulgarities
  • No dress sense
  • ill mannered
  • Indecisive
I'm not saying to anyone in particular, but if you think that it's you that I'm referring about, then I cannot do anything also. I do agree with the first and third point, but not the second one. The first thing, about selective listening is like they choose what they want to hear and ignores the rest that women are talking about. Which, to me, is kind of rude. I mean, you must always pay attention to whoever that is talking right? That's what I learn in school. In the interview video that I watch, the put gaming into this section of selective listening because some men love to bring their verious devices out and actually play it on a date while the women is shopping, and when a women ask if it is nice or not, they would just say "yah yah" without actually considering.

The second thing about vulgarities I do agree a lot. I honestly just simply CANNOT STAND guys that speaks vulgarities in every other sentence. I remember having this conversation with the CG people about speaking vulgarities because some of them will accidentally say it. And according to wanxin, people who use vulgarities, especially to scold people, are very low class. I don't think of it that way, I just think that they have a bad vocab and cannot find the words to express how they really feel. Honestly, guys that are vulgar is a turn-off, well my ranking for turn-off are like these:
  1. Smokers/Drug Abusers/Drinkers
  2. Violence
  3. Vulgarities
I can't really find the ranking for the Drinkers and Drug Abusers and Smokers because they seem equally bad and I equally hate it. So yeah, that's the thing about vulgarities. I'm just uncomfortable with it. Actually I'm fine with it, if the person don't use it in every other sentence and only use it like when something happen. Like when the person accidentally drop the phone into the drain or something then he goes "oh f***!" In that case, I'm totally okay with it. But if people use it like "hahahhaa, omg that is just f***ing funny!" i just.. UGH! Ill mannered also comes under this part about being vulgar. and probably I have to agree a little on the last point, the thing about no dress sense. To me, I cannot stand guys that are SKINNY and they wear SKINNY JEANS. I mean, what's the point. You're already skinny enough, you don't need a pair of jeans to make you look even more skinny right. And especially guys that wear skinny jeans + slippers. That is the worst combination ever. I mean, okay, unless you say like you just got home and you change your hoes into slippers and go to a coffeeshop. But not when you go to Orchard Road and you wear like that right.

So much for speaking for girls, now for the guys point of view. There is also a seperate video of what Singapore men find annoying about women. Honestly, I am guilty of most of them also. Hahaha, anyway these are the few problems that men find with Singapore women
  • Overreacting to the slightest thing
  • Disjointed idea from reality
  • Skinny women who complains that they are fat
  • Women who are too bossy
  • Saying "okay" when she's not
  • Women being flicked-minded
Okay, I confess. I am guilty of at least 4 of these. Overreacting to the slightest thing, I think that most of the girls are just like that. I mean, I also face problems with my girl friends overreacting, so I know how it feels. I have nothing much to say about this. I don't usually overreact, do I? I think I don't, compared to some of my girl friends who blow up stuff far more than I do.

I'm guilty of the third one, skinny women who complains that they are fat. Okay, first of all, I don't think I'm skinny, I don't think that I'm THAT fat either. But I do complain about me getting fat, especially nowdays when I'm having my this 6 month holiday. I think I annoy people when I keep saying that, like how I get annoyed when someone obviously skinny tells me that. Like the worst thing is that when that person is underweight. You want to be how light? And how light can you go with your bones growing bigger as you grow up? They aren't hollow unlike birds you know. I am totally fine with people that are a little bigger in size to say that they are fat, but not all you girls who are so freaking skinny AND underweight. I don't get it also.

Girls are girls, we always say the opposite things. We say "okay" when we're not. I am obviously guilty of this, I've done this many times. Every other day actually! Sometimes I do that just to not get into another big talk and all. But when I say "okay" and my face show that I'm obviously not okay then I'm purposely doing it to show the person that I'm unhappy with something that he did. Obviously when I do that,I don't tell the person what's wrong andI wait for him to figure out himself, men hate this thing. Hahaha, I guess this actions will just annoy all the men on the planet!

Women are also indecisive creatures, especially when it comes to clothes, I guess. Not much of food for me. I get indecisive when I choose clothes, especially when I have a budget and both the dresses looks nice. I mean, you just can't decide which one to buy because both looks equally nice and you feel like getting them both!

Yeah, just a random post. And if you're wondering where I watch the videos from, it's from Stomp!