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Relationships.
well, like most people say, the most important thing in any relationship, be it with your parents, with your siblings, with your friends or with you special one, is communication. Communication in this sense is quite direct, talking. Or actually, to tell and show how you really feel. People nowdays are expecting more. I don't know is it just me or what. People are expecting others to understand how they feel without them telling. They expect people to know what they are going through without sharing. This doesn't make much sense, does it? Okay, relationships takes two hands to clap, the people around me got to play a part and I, myself, got to play a part. I'm trying my best to understand people, but I'm also hoping that people would understand how hard it is to try to guess how others are feeling and hoping you don't get it wrong. this would all be better if people just openly say how they feel and that don't get offended easily. i just feel this way, I don't know about most people. For me, people who I really want to understand and to be close with are people that I start a conversation with. If i am trying to start a conversation with someone, it means I am interested in their lives. I want to understand them. I would love to be given a chance to do this, I don't want to always feel so bad because it seems like i am forever disturbing them. I want people to tell me what they are going through, I want to try to be a listener. I don't wish to misunderstand people. It might be hard, but I'm always willing to give it a shot. I'm not perfect, but I'll keep trying. And to you, I am definitely not the best. I will try to be, I do feel lost and don't seem to understand you some times, but please try to understand also that I sometimes really don't know anything at all. you're the most amazing thing that is in my life now. and i love you. Labels: Feelings, love, Rant, Thoughts |